How To Avoid Ruining Your First Appointment

Dec 18 2014 Published by under General

I have a lot of guys who write me to ask my advice about having the best performance on their first date. This post is made for that, to deal with this concept is vital to understand if you're wondering how to behave around a woman who just met. AN ERROR THAT ALMOST ALL THE KIDS EAT I noticed a fundamental difference between how men and women act when they meet a "potential mate." Women usually act in a way that can be characterized as follows: "You're interesting to me. I'd like to get to know you, and we'll see where all this comes." Men usually act in a way that can be characterized as follows: "I am very interested in you that I am very nervous. In fact, I'm thinking of you as a potential girlfriend or wife …

or at least one night." In other words, women tend to be casual and relaxed when they leave for the first time with a man. But men tend to act as if every girl were a potential wife. As you can imagine, this creates a lot of tension and pressure. And I'm not talking about the tension and positive pressure. I'm talking about the kind of nervousness and stress that makes men tremble and women feel uncomfortable because the man is acting uncomfortable. I know that you can identify with this case in any way. THE RESPONSE The simplest advice for the first quote is: It does not show your nervousness.


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