We have already discussed in the article about how to talk to you better understand. Now again we touch on this subject and discuss the particle 'not'. Requests built using the particle 'not' is usually done with an accuracy of 'the opposite' especially children. An example of a story that well illustrates this: On the green grass on the riverbank walks a young dad with a 2 year old daughter. A girl named Maria, and she probably likes to rake the ground toed sandals, judging from they were Stoch.
The father constantly pulls her: 'Mary is not raking in socks'. Masha immediately continues his. 'Masha %$*&() 0% '. I have met before this man, and he knew me, too. We chatted. I told him that the children in my mother scold – bad, and the particle 'no' to a child may be generally hollow sound, as if restated his request as "Masha go well ', then such request will be much clearer and easier to perform. And indeed Mary, who was walking near and again raked socks, knew immediately what they want from it and went completely normal pace.
When we said our goodbyes, and the couple was removed, the girl was again scrape the toes of the earth. Then Father repeated the magic phrase, and it instantly brought the desired effect. The father shrugged his shoulders and they went away. Avoid the use of expressions containing the denial may be very difficult. So difficult as it's difficult to say the phrase in which According to close, and thoughts of room. Below you will find several examples of how to paraphrase an expression in a positive form. Perhaps these examples are a little sloppy, but the advantage of positively constructed phrases that they perceived more adequately and odnoznachno.Ne bore down on the table. Step away from the table. My tea without sugar. I only brew and hot water. Can not lead seminars. Maybe a year or two I'll be able to conduct seminars. I can spend seminar in the audience of one – two people. I can not take your money. No money. The money I have all painted on other important matters. For crediting in my budget zero cents. Maybe in six months I'll lend you a portion of this amount. Not I want to eat. I'm sick. I do not want to drink alcohol. I'd rather drink tea. I'll have later. I do not want to drink. I've been drinking. Here you are safe. It's reliable, quiet place. Safe. Reliable, Secure, Saved, quiet, stable. I want to quit smoking. I'm starting a healthy lifestyle. Smoking helps relieve stress. Smoking contributes to better concentration. Water does not come out of the bath. Water remains in the bath. Nonverbal communication. Tacit communication, language behavior, Body language. Extralinguistic, extralinguistic communication. Not true. False. Dissatisfaction. Desire. Disappointment. Melancholy, sadness, melancholy. Disorder. Grief, corruption, breakdown. 'Thou shalt not kill, Thou shalt not steal, do not make you a idol You shall not covet neighbor's wife. "What would it say the Great Master of Communication?