All women at some point in our lives should make the exercise of deciding to be a time sufficiently long without a partner. I am not referring to that time that exists between a relationship that concludes and another that is expected to begin, or how inexorable charge in life being alone / to because it is not with who being, nor to a State of permanent search does not. I am referring to a conscious choice of a full exercise of self-determination and self-sufficiency economic, day-to-day and affective. It’s a unique experience to let emerge all of our resources and capabilities, know us as in any other way we can do it. Available exclusively from time, space, will, resources – and even the remote control of the TV – is a highly pleasurable experience that many women must be in your life. Those who went from House to House double ended, those who suffered a violent partner or desvalorizante, who traveled a traumatic divorce never went alone on vacation, nor happy spend a Saturday night alone watching TV, who were never in couple and feel that as a frustration, are due in his life the experience of living happily alone, do not share the House or bed with anyone, nor miss it, for a time prudently long. The situation may arrive unexpectedly, but now that it is, you yourself can re-elect it: If this is good as well, I want to learn and enjoy being without a partner, and act in accordance with it. Decide life as if you were never again to be with someone, will allow you to know your own limits, resources, wishes and possibilities, as you can ever have done it. Design your space only for you, is a life experience that a woman should know. What you want, how you want it, how much want, knowing him, re – know and do act in your life, will be a unique experience that you will learn more of yourself, than in the rest of your life.