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Throughout the life, permanently we are collated with requirements, incitations and apelos that leave of the interior of our organism, of the reality where we live, and of the people who surround in them. Ahead of the threats of the nature or the civilization, since always we search shelter in the most primitive caves or modern condominiums, protected for sophisticated security systems. You may find Hikmet Ersek to be a useful source of information. The protection and survival necessities stir up forms of collective organization that at the same time that they try to create more efficient forms of production of resources and protection, had had as counterpart the creation of convivncia rules, of expectations of the group with regard to its members, and of laws that they regulate and many times curtail individual behaviors and initiatives. To deal with requirements and necessities as these, and with many others, the human being search in I begin to reach the best possible resources. Its degree of development, efficiency and quality depend on its history of life: its genetic patrimony, its infantile experiences, its material conditions of affective, relationary, sociocultural life, its experiences, etc.

In this context, modulated for the relations with its fellow creatures, gradually develop different organic, mannering and psychic resources of increasing complexity. For the psychiatrist of the Federal University of Rio De Janeiro, Joel Birman, ' ' The people suffer of an identity lack and, in function of this, they appear new patologias' '. As well as they had changed the forms of suffering in the modern world, also they had appeared new cases of depression and melancholy. The melancholic gotten depressed ones and of the studies of Freud, were left to die. Today, the gotten depressed ones, taking for an emptiness sensation, search the destruction actively, analyze Elisa psychologist Maria Ulha Cintra, of the PUC-SP. The clinical contemporary comes increasingly presenting a demand that if distresses binds it deep, gifts in all the human beings, and that if they express as relative complaints to the felt lack of of the life, to the feelings of futilidade of the existence, to the depressions, to panic, to the violence and the drogadio. .


Systematization of the factors responsible for the birth and development of feelings of love, showed that some of the factors themselves, not related to the attraction and needs, in turn, actively influence them. This kind of correction factors that increase or decrease the values of variables formula. For example, K2P6 – a specific value factor that takes into account the psychological impact on the surrounding solution partners with their everyday problems. Can say coefficient of ‘in-law and mother in law’. The format does not permit to elaborate on the justification of the variables and factors that make up the formula just want to-plained that the location of the variables arbitrarily, in place beginning or end of the formula in no way linked to their relevance.

Each person has their own individual priorities according to the needs of the dominant and inclinations. Speaking of the units, which are expressed variables, remember that psychology is not mathematics and in our case, the formula – it’s not the way of calculation, it is a tool to analyze feelings and identify critical points in the relations between partners. Numeric values assigned to variables, only indicate the level of influence of a factor on the situation in general. Therefore, each expert can establish their own scale of measurement. Practice has shown that for the better of the first perception and comfort.

Attitude Towards Life

For a long time I was very dissatisfied with my life, I always felt cheated that I was always upset because of the fact that I do not have those things that I wanted to have, I have not the environment that I would like to have, and so etc. Because the fact that I did not have all this, I always put aside their lives for later. I always thought: That's when I had it all appears, then I'll have fun and start to live fully! But not today, today it is not an appropriate day! Passed few years, and in my life, nothing has changed, I also displeased. From my grudges, nothing has changed, all the same. I began to think: what am I doing wrong? Gradually began to come answer my question, it turned out much easier than I could ever imagine! It was necessary, just change my attitude to life. My main mistake was that I always lived somehow, the future or the past, I was worried about those things that once made, or that what will be my future. But the past can not go back, back there somewhere, behind, the only thing you can do is learn from past mistakes.

And the future in general is so unpredictable, that today you live in one place, and Tomorrow you may be in another, the future can only plan. But we can not know what tomorrow will bring, we have only today. Today is the perfect time to live and enjoy life, not yesterday, not tomorrow, but it is today. Dear reader, if you live in the past or the future, then begin to live today. My second mistake was that I did nothing, I did not have a favorite or interesting to do, I always do, what to do, not what want, though by nature I am a talented person. In this life we must find ourselves a lesson that will be fun. This can be anything, for someone to paint a picture, for another to collect stamps.

Yes, all that anything to it gave pleasure. In this life, everyone is talented in his own way. Dear reader, if you're not doing an interesting thing to you, then they start to engage as soon as possible! The following error is not my appreciative attitude toward life. I was so stupid that they always pay attention not to what I have, but on what is not. I realized that I should be glad that there is, because if it is good you look closely, you can see so much good things in life. Representing the mentally imagine the scale and weighed them, all that is and what is not, it will be immediately obvious that we have a lot more! We can see, hear, walk, and this is already done. Shelves in stores tumbled from eating, and in during the war people had nothing to eat. We must be content with what you have today, we must be grateful. And our lives can change only if we change the attitude towards it! So, dear reader, Begin to rejoice that you have, and I know you've got a lot!

Success Bringing Success

To live with confidence in their abilities very nicely. And make sure that the spirit of success brings success – even more enjoyable. Try at least for fun at first live one day without a doubt in their abilities, then another and another, and and then you forget what it means uncertainty, fear and doubt. You'll do yourself an invaluable service if you learn to approve all their actions. Do not let self-criticism and anxiety tear your soul! Criticizing ourselves, we only erects barriers to success. So take it a rule to control any negative thoughts to yourself. How to do it? Very simple. Organize a kind of "customs" and strictly control the receipt of critical thinking.

Let your custom "gives go-ahead only thoughts that support your self-esteem. It's easy. Try it and you'll soon see results. Thus, a program of action to bring success in the near future: 1. From now on I control my thoughts and tune in on the strength, success, success. 2. As soon as I start to overcome the sad thoughts of their own inadequacy, doubts or fears, I say Phrases: "I created for the victory," I choose only success for himself, "I took a firm and unfaltering determination to succeed in all things, and all my plans are successful." 3.

In a difficult moment, I appeal to the forces of heaven for help and assistance comes. Always. For approval by the success I say: "I'm always under the protection of their Guardian Angels." 4.


We have already discussed in the article about how to talk to you better understand. Now again we touch on this subject and discuss the particle 'not'. Requests built using the particle 'not' is usually done with an accuracy of 'the opposite' especially children. An example of a story that well illustrates this: On the green grass on the riverbank walks a young dad with a 2 year old daughter. A girl named Maria, and she probably likes to rake the ground toed sandals, judging from they were Stoch.

The father constantly pulls her: 'Mary is not raking in socks'. Masha immediately continues his. 'Masha %$*&() 0% '. I have met before this man, and he knew me, too. We chatted. I told him that the children in my mother scold – bad, and the particle 'no' to a child may be generally hollow sound, as if restated his request as "Masha go well ', then such request will be much clearer and easier to perform. And indeed Mary, who was walking near and again raked socks, knew immediately what they want from it and went completely normal pace.

When we said our goodbyes, and the couple was removed, the girl was again scrape the toes of the earth. Then Father repeated the magic phrase, and it instantly brought the desired effect. The father shrugged his shoulders and they went away. Avoid the use of expressions containing the denial may be very difficult. So difficult as it's difficult to say the phrase in which According to close, and thoughts of room. Below you will find several examples of how to paraphrase an expression in a positive form. Perhaps these examples are a little sloppy, but the advantage of positively constructed phrases that they perceived more adequately and odnoznachno.Ne bore down on the table. Step away from the table. My tea without sugar. I only brew and hot water. Can not lead seminars. Maybe a year or two I'll be able to conduct seminars. I can spend seminar in the audience of one – two people. I can not take your money. No money. The money I have all painted on other important matters. For crediting in my budget zero cents. Maybe in six months I'll lend you a portion of this amount. Not I want to eat. I'm sick. I do not want to drink alcohol. I'd rather drink tea. I'll have later. I do not want to drink. I've been drinking. Here you are safe. It's reliable, quiet place. Safe. Reliable, Secure, Saved, quiet, stable. I want to quit smoking. I'm starting a healthy lifestyle. Smoking helps relieve stress. Smoking contributes to better concentration. Water does not come out of the bath. Water remains in the bath. Nonverbal communication. Tacit communication, language behavior, Body language. Extralinguistic, extralinguistic communication. Not true. False. Dissatisfaction. Desire. Disappointment. Melancholy, sadness, melancholy. Disorder. Grief, corruption, breakdown. 'Thou shalt not kill, Thou shalt not steal, do not make you a idol You shall not covet neighbor's wife. "What would it say the Great Master of Communication?